He Said “What if she wants you to kiss her? Well, then I guess I’m just gonna have to kiss her. Amanda’s no minor leaguer who’ll be swept off her feet by your amateur lips. Well, I just think maybe… you should consider whether or not you can deliver a kiss that kills. What, you… Continue reading He Said / She Said – First Kisses

He Said “What if she wants you to kiss her? Well, then I guess I’m just gonna have to kiss her. Amanda’s no minor leaguer who’ll be swept off her feet by your amateur lips. Well, I just think maybe… you should consider whether or not you can deliver a kiss that kills. What, you… Continue reading He Said / She Said – First Kiss

Everyone has emotional baggage – it’s the stuff of living that we carry around with us, like our beliefs about ourselves after we fuck something up. If a relationship ends badly, we often take the things our partner said or did to us as the ‘real’ truth about who we are, and we carry those… Continue reading Freedom Friday – Transcending Our Baggage

The next day I knew this was all still swirling on his mind and I didn’t want to miss a chance to spend some time with him, so I offered to make a giant tray of eggplant parmesan and meet him at his parents house.  He was thankful and appreciative and I was making it… Continue reading Talkative

Dimples and I were not the kind of couple that needed each other every minute of every day. Don’t get me wrong, I would have spent every day with him, but we were both grown ups, with a ton of things on our plates and we were busy. We didn’t see each other every single… Continue reading Stuff

After that moment when he hugged me, all the troubles seemed to melt away.  He looked at me and asked “Do you still want to go to the show?”  Uh Yea I did!  So he got himself together and we headed down to my house so I could change.  The car ride was a bit… Continue reading The Show Must Go On

He Said On a scale of 1-10, you should ask yourself just how important is finding that love connection that has nearly all the important qualities and characteristics you desire.  If it’s not a 9 or better yet a 12 on that scale, most likely, you will never be truly happy and/or fulfilled and you… Continue reading He Said / She Said