There wasn’t much time after our talk to get back into the swing of things because Christmas Eve was upon us. I woke up and had to go into work for a few hours and Dimples and I stayed in constant contact. Throughout the day we checked in, sent text’s to each other and generally things… Continue reading Christmas Eve

I have been a single parent for the better part of seventeen years. I am the custodial and residential guardian of my two children with 100% rights over decision making for my kids. At the time this was an overwhelming obligation bestowed on me, but through the years I have realized that it was the… Continue reading OPS – “Other” Parent Syndrome

I realized today, at the age of 42 that there are things I no longer want to do. I find myself saying more times than not “I don’t wanna”. Maybe not necessarily verbally, but in my head and always to my best friend. Here is a list of things I’ve said to myself in my… Continue reading I Don’t Wanna

He Said How many of you can juggle eggs, raise your hand. I didn’t think so. Juggling is a skill that is acquired through tremendous amounts of practice, practice, some broken stuff and more practice. So if you think you can date more than one person at a time without breaking stuff, you my friend… Continue reading He Said / She Said – Dating More than 1 Person

For the better part of twenty years my credit has been in the toilet. I suppose at one point in time it was pristine and sat on it’s pedestal looking down at the scores that ranged in the “unacceptable” zone.  Then I got married and decided to take things into my own name.  We were… Continue reading Line of Credit

Being a mom means a lot of things to a lot of different people. It’s the nucleus of a family, whether you are two people, three people or more. Being a mom is one of the hardest most challenging jobs in the entire world, I know this cause I am one. I have been the proud… Continue reading Being a Mom

I waited almost with bated breath as they say; for him to make the next move. I felt like I was in a Chess game and A) I’m not good at games and B) I don’t know how to play Chess, so a disadvantage on my part either way. He sat on the bar stool… Continue reading In