I finished work and headed over to Dimples’ house to have the dreaded “talk”. I wasn’t looking forward to it and I was actually dreading it a bit. Not necessarily because I was sad it was going to be our last talk, but because I just didn’t want to do this again. I hated endings. I… Continue reading In or Out

He Said Ex by definition means without so you are sans partner, the good and the bad, the fights and the make-ups, the kind and discouraging words. So why would you want to break back into prison? As Brian Flannigan of Cocktail fame said, “Everything ends badly, otherwise it wouldn’t end.” So when your Ex… Continue reading He Said / She Said – When an Ex Shows Up

Wednesday morning came. WEDNESDAY MORNING! And I got an email in response to my email the day before. It took him over 24 hours to answer my email. 24 hours. What the hell took 24 hours to respond? I was so mad when I opened that email up. I didn’t even care at that point… Continue reading Slience Broken

Today I had the pleasure of participating in #BeReal on HastyWords here is that piece It has taken me the better part of forty two years to understand what it means to actually be real. It’s not about what you actually show on the outside. Don’t get me wrong, that’s a part of it. What you… Continue reading #BeReal – HastyWords

He Said All is fair in love and war. Famous words to live and die by. Love can be war and sometimes all you can hope to do is survive with a tie. Unless you are a male, then just expect that you will probably lose even though you are so sure that you have… Continue reading He Said / She Said – Fighting Fair

So Monday came and went and now we were at Tuesday. Tuesday morning, the TUESDAY BEFORE CHISTMAS! I was in my office starring at the computer screen waiting for his email to pop in, but it never did. He didn’t text or call or write or anything. He did what we call – nothing. And… Continue reading Silence Day Enough

We had now gone Saturday night without speaking or seeing each other, we had gone all day Sunday and now it was Monday. The Monday before Christmas. THE MONDAY BEFORE CHRISTMAS! I have always had bad luck around the holidays. Let’s see; I’ve been left on Thanksgiving morning, I’ve been left on Christmas Eve, I’ve… Continue reading Silence Day 3