I started to think. When the heck would I meet a nice guy. You know, the kind that wants to be with just one woman, the kind that respects her and cherishes her. The kind of guy that makes my face hurt from laughing. Was he out there? Did he even exist? I wasn’t all… Continue reading Urban Legend

25 asked me out again solo this time.  I agreed and he picked me up on his motorcycle.  It was cool and fun and we went to a local bar for a drink.  Now not for anything, but I’m a big fraidy cat so going for a drink on a bike isn’t exactly what I… Continue reading De-Magnetize

So by now I was getting kind of ready to maybe spend some time with a man. Not a boyfriend, not a significant other, but a man. One to go out with occasionally, one to have dinner with, maybe the movies, and casual sex should the feeling arise. Is that possible now a days? Is it… Continue reading Ready but Not Ready

I wanted to take a minute to introduce you to an inspirational young woman. I have known Amanda Acevedo for about a year now and I have to say her story has truly touched me. She has taken some rough road and put them into some positive pathways. Here is a little about her: Hello there. My… Continue reading Feature – Amanda Acevedo Inspirational Yogi

So now what? I’m feeling good, I’m looking better, my weight is up, my spirits are up. What was my next move? I wasn’t ready to date yet although I was beginning to notice men again, but not in the same way. You know when someone asks you out and you get all giddy and… Continue reading Alone vs. Lonely

The best thing about positivity is that it’s contagious.  It constantly gains momentum as you throw it around everywhere.  It starts to seep into everything you do, into everywhere you go and into everything you are.  Now I’m not saying that I don’t get down or act like a bitch from time to time, but… Continue reading Pass It On

During these few months that I finally felt a change within me, I finally felt a switch in how I acted, how I thought and who I was, there was still this underlying trepidation amongst my friends and family and especially my children. I could see the change and feel it. I wasn’t the same… Continue reading Prove It