Today I had the pleasure of participating in #BeReal on HastyWords here is that piece It has taken me the better part of forty two years to understand what it means to actually be real. It’s not about what you actually show on the outside. Don’t get me wrong, that’s a part of it. What you… Continue reading #BeReal – HastyWords

He Said All is fair in love and war. Famous words to live and die by. Love can be war and sometimes all you can hope to do is survive with a tie. Unless you are a male, then just expect that you will probably lose even though you are so sure that you have… Continue reading He Said / She Said – Fighting Fair

So Monday came and went and now we were at Tuesday. Tuesday morning, the TUESDAY BEFORE CHISTMAS! I was in my office starring at the computer screen waiting for his email to pop in, but it never did. He didn’t text or call or write or anything. He did what we call – nothing. And… Continue reading Silence Day Enough

We had now gone Saturday night without speaking or seeing each other, we had gone all day Sunday and now it was Monday. The Monday before Christmas. THE MONDAY BEFORE CHRISTMAS! I have always had bad luck around the holidays. Let’s see; I’ve been left on Thanksgiving morning, I’ve been left on Christmas Eve, I’ve… Continue reading Silence Day 3

The next morning there was no hello, no hi, no good morning whatsoever. There was silence. I would love to put it all on him and say that he should have done this and he should have done that, but to be quite honest I didn’t do anything either. I made no attempt to contact… Continue reading Silence – Day 2